Friday, April 26, 2013

Dear Supercenter and the patrons of....

When I am standing in the longest line I've ever seen at a pharmacy at 4:00 in the afternoon and you say, "Well why would you bring all those here with you?" may I explain something to you?

1. "Those" are my 4 most priceless treasures on this planet. "Those" are children I have longed and prayed for. "Those" are my life's investment.

2. It's 4:00pm. I know. Believe me, I know. Not my first choice of time to go to a busy supercenter to pick up medication. It's the only time I have.

3. My husband works. Hard. He gave up 3 hours of his workday because we just moved to your fine city and I have no other childcare options right now so that I could take one of "those" to the doctor. So he is still at work while I follow up on the earlier dr's visit.

4. Yes, my son is doing backstrokes on the (dirty) floor in front of your feet. No, I'm not picking him up and spraying him down with sanitizer. He will take a bath when we get home. This does not a bad mother make.

5. My son was just given 2 doses of a steroid to hopefully make his lungs work a bit better. Steroids in adult atheletes make them stupid. Imagine what it does inside a 4 year olds' little body.

6. They do not need "your grandmother voice to come out," right now. They need compassion. They have uprooted from everything they have ever known to come to a culture that, while not foreign, is still quite unfamiliar. They have said goodbye to their first school and their first friends. Not that I think it will get any easier but they will learn socially acceptable forms of working out their disappointment, confusion and sadness. That probably won't include chasing each other around the shopping cart, knocking over a medicine display, climbing over the benches and poking each other in the eyes which, predicably will cause some shrieking.

7. You do hard things in order to accomplish something in your life. I do hard things in order to accomplish something in their life. We all invest somewhere. My investment is here. With the 6 year old in pig tails who whines, "I'm too tired to stand anymore." With the 4 year old climbing up the sides of the counter. With the 2 year old "swimming" on your floor. With the 4 month old fussing and fidgeting.  It's at home while baby oil, pepper and basil are combined in a colossal puddle on my bedroom floor. It's at home where my couch has been colored yellow. Where beds are wet, noses are wiped, hugs are given, prayers are said, laundry is piled, breakfast, lunch and dinner are served. It's at church on Sunday. It's at the park on Saturday. At the library on Wednesday. It's here at the pharmacy. My investment is here. Where "those" are at. And they are where I am at. And I am proud of them. I am so unbelievably proud of them.

You don't need to cut me any slack. It's okay, I know we are messy, awkward and a bit unruly sometimes. Sometimes people don't get to pick and choose when they do hard things. I would not have chosen to come to your fine store when I did if I had any other options. So there you have it. Some of the reasons why I would bring all those here with me. But mostly I think the reason comes down to this: They are mine.


Monday, April 22, 2013

Life in Captions

My funny boss-man thinker.
 My always-up-to-something adventure firecracker.
 What it feels like to have all the cousins together.
 Growing up
Boys vs. Girls in pictures.
Aubrey: "Eww, Stuart, your shirt!"
Stuart: "No, Sis, it's just my slobber."
Way to own it, Dude. 
 Oldest cousin cuddling with almost youngest cousin.
 Anderson guys doing what they do best...
 Crazy water boy.
 Aunt Meg and Emmett boy
 Someone switched glasses with Daddy.
 "Hey, this looks like something we could crawl up into..."
 The 3 Musketeers
 Yep. That's him.
 Molly: "YAY! I'm holding the baby!"
Emmett: "Ummm...."
 Cuties
 Fun in the sprinkler
 My 4 favorite kids

Thursday, April 04, 2013

Epic Road Trip 2013

We made it! Whew. There are still a few boxes lining the walls and we are still trying to get the world to stop spinning a bit, but we made it. We are in our new home and I have a few minutes to catch up on our epic road trip 2013!

Bryant boy turned 4 during our trip so the day before we left we celebrated with his "dudes." It was a Batman and Superman party thrown by and hosted by Uncle Drew, Aunt Annie, Noah & Levi.

Three of the absolute coolest dudes on the planet. L to R: Bryant, Noah, Jack

Noah & Levi
 The party decor

The kids: L to R: Sam, Stuart, Bethany, Aubrey, Jack, Bryant, Beckham, Levi. Noah & Alice are missing.
 The birthday boy
Aubrey got to hold Alice, and it was love at first sight. Plus they had coordinating outfits on, courtesy of Aunt Stephanie
 Jack                                                                                    Sam
Stuart                                                    Bryant
 Blake, Drew & I really like to coordinate our outfits, too.
 Early Saturday morning our roadtrip began. Our first lunch stop. This is so typical of me trying to get a picture of the four. Stuart is eating a cookie, Bryant is shooting something, Aubrey is posing and Emmett is trying to survive. Me too. :)
 We spent the night in a different location every night. The first night was in Parma where Bryant specially requested to ride a tractor. Uncle Warren obliged him. We had a party waiting for us and it was so nice to get to spend the evening with family from the Farwell side.
 We didn't enjoy getting out a whole lot as the temperature was in the low 20's most everywhere we went. This was Independence Rock, somewhere in Wyoming. As the pioneers were making their way west they knew if they made it to Independence Rock before the 4th of July they could make it the rest of the way before winter hit. Pretty cool rest stop if you ask me.
 We got to make a special stop in Upton, WY, where John's great uncle, Joe and his wife Beverly run the family ranch. They were such gracious hosts during a very busy calving season.
 Mt. Rushmore was a fun highlight. Who are the two people on the right? Nana & Papa! We really could not have made the trip (successfully) without them. There are photo-op grandparents and there are in-the-trench grandparents. Those who aren't in a whole lot of pictures because they are too busy manning their stations? Yep, that's Nana & Papa. We made some fun memories along the way, too.
We also got to stop in Sioux Falls, SD, where most of dad's family lives and had such a fun time. Gracious hosts, lots of laughter. We headed to Worthington, MN, as well where Dad was born and most of his family's roots are. Seeing the old homestead and the grave stones of those we've heard stories of was very fun. We also were priveleged to meet my Grandpa Petersen's best friend, Erv & his wife Lois. Since I never was able to meet my Grandpa it was incredibly special to get to talk to a couple who knew him from grade school days.

We then trekked to Omaha, NE, and God gifted us with staying at a hotel right next to a convention center. Mom & I were heading out to get some dinner to bring back while Dad & John went swimming with the kids and I saw a lot of kids walking into the convention center with their parents. Mom inquired as to what was happening and it was Disney on Ice! What a special surprise.

The next day we were off to Great Wolf Lodge in Kansas City. The kids had a blast there, discovering water slides with inner tubes! Aubrey began to get sick here. I thought it was dehydration but later on we will discover that it may have been more than that.

Mt. Vernon, IL, was our next stop and this is where we received word that we had an offer on our house in Warrenton!

West Virginia was next. We don't have a whole lot to say about this state (the saying goes if you don't have anything nice to say...) but it was one stop closer to our destination.

The next day we made it to Raleigh, NC, and had fun playing with Grace, Ella & Molly and looking forward to more regular "play dates," as these next few years progress.

And, finally on the 26th we made it to Suffolk, our new home. 
Our household goods were delayed a day so we decided to head over to Colonial Williamsburg for a day. Note to self: a historical colony with a lot of walking may not be an ideal location for travel-weary children. This picture below is the beginning of our day. Ominous sign and yet we forged on. We (the adults) enjoyed seeing what we saw and I think the highlight for me this day was when Emmett pulled a cup of lemonade off the lunch table onto my lap. In my haste to clean up the lemonade I placed my elbow directly into my cup of Brunswick Stew. Yes, I was wearing white. Fun times.
 We officially spent the first night in our home with our beds on the 28th. The morning of the 29th Aubrey woke and almost immediately began complaining about her tooth. She said Bryant "bumped into her on purpose" and hit her tooth. She also said she hit her nose when pulling a book off a shelf. I, being the incredibly sensitive mother I am, told her that I had bumped my face lots of times and she didn't see me crying about it. So, please buck up and toughen up. Let's not go and pin any medals on my chest just yet.

The morning of the 30th, after a terrible night of sleep for Aubrey, she woke up and looked like the cutest Who in Whoville. I mean, the absolute cutest. But a Who nonetheless. Her face had swollen just under her nose. I felt a twinge of guilt for how I had responded to her the previous day and asked how she was feeling. She said much better. So we went on with our day. I had gone out to get some groceries (I think, I can't remember what my errand was for) and as soon as I walked in the door Aubrey winced and said, "OW!" I said in a less-than-understanding tone, "Aubrey, I doubt very much that you've been saying that at all until I came home. I know it hurts but we can't take any more medicine for a couple more hours. Buck up." How about that medal?

At about 6pm on Saturday night (yes, the night before Easter Sunday) she came running into the room and said, "Mom! I feel the bump where it hurts on my tooth!" I lifted her lip up, as I had done many times before, and sure enough there was the ugliest looking thing staring back at me. Okay, it wasn't staring but if you know my stomach when looking at icky things, it may as well have been. I calmly said, "Wow! Sure enough! Daddy...would you mind looking at this and letting me know how fast I should call a doctor?" He looked at it and said, "Wow! Well there it is. How about if you call them now?" Problem starts here. We have been in our house for 2 days. I don't know any doctors. I don't know any urgent care clinics in the area. My smart phone was no help. But, the day before my mom had met our neighbor, who mentioned she was a pediatrician. I headed across the street and knocked on the door with my very sick girl. "Hi, my name is Anna and we just moved in across the street. I think you may have met my mom the other day." "Yes! Hi!" "Hi. So, this is a fairly awkward introduction but my daughter, Aubrey, (say, hi, Aubs), is not feeling well and she has a strange bump on her gums above her tooth. I wondered if you could recommend an urgent care around here for me to take her to?" Pediatrician neighbor asks to see what I am talking about and immediately says, "EWW!" Thank you, Dr.

She then proceeded to call the children's hospital and give them the heads up that we would be coming that way. She quietly told me it looked like an abcess on her tooth and that we needed to take care of it right away. After thanking her profusely and plugging in directions into my phone, our neighbor graciously said, "I guess now I know why I told your mom what I did. I never tell people in our first meeting what I do for a living. God knew, I guess." Yes, yes He did.

On our way to the hospital the "ouchie," drained. Almost completely. I know that's gross to even say but that in itself is a miracle because otherwise she would have had to go to the O.R. and have it drained. Much more traumatic of an experience. It's also a miracle that John packed a roll of paper towels in our car so that Aubrey could use it on the way.

The next day was Resurrection Sunday. We managed to dye eggs, hide them, hunt them and eat them while thanking the Lord that He has risen and that He watched over us every step of the way.

One week later our house is not quite home except that our kids are healthy, they are happy, and we can smile and say this is right where God wants us.

On that note, here is an ode to our youngest. The smilingest, sweetest Emmett boy ever. 



Wednesday, April 03, 2013

8 Years Ago...

We were awfully young 8 years ago, Johnny, and I think we knew a whole lot more than we know now. Don't get me wrong, we are still extremely young. :) But our expertise on how life was going to unfold has dwindled a bit. Probably our arrogance, too, huh?

This was me, 8 years ago.
 This was you.
We were so excited to start our journey together.

Our life has grown and changed. Always being shifted, twisted, molded into something that hopefully better reflects our Savior. That twisting and molding isn't always comfortable and can sometimes be a bit painful. But here is what I am thankful for this day, 8 years later.

That you have not wavered. You have stood when you felt like lying down. You have forged ahead when you felt like waving the white flag. You have led me in your quiet, determined way, to live a life of quiet obedience to our Lord. You have given me that gift.

"Marital love is a demanding and dying thing compared to the stuff of movies and mirages. The love of imagination--it's a different beast entirely than love made in the image of a Saviour with nails in His hands."

Thank you for taking hard hits in life and coming in the door and choosing to live life graciously, tender-heartedly and courageously anyway. You are a model, a true hero, to me.

So, to celebrate this special occasion how about if we have a shepherd's pie over candlelight, if I can uncover the candles with our 4 wonders? After all Aubrey is wearing her special dress because it's a special day. Maybe we can have ice cream, too.

I love you, John. And I admire you tremendously. I am so grateful that we said, 'I do.'